Book/7-Habits-of-Highly-Effective-People

Part 1 - Paradigms & Principles Inside out Model: paradigm Model: paradigm shift Model: principles (character ethic) The seven habits - an overview Model: habits Model_ Maturity Continuum Model: effectiveness vs efficiency Part 2 - Private victory (habit 1) Be proactive Model: between stimulus and response Model_ Influence vs Concern (habit 2) Begin with the end in mind Personal mission statement Model: personal center - healthy vs unhealthy (habit 3) Put first things first...

Goodness: people deserve to be treated well. Regardless of how they treat you or others. Justice: people deserve to be treated like they treat others. Why is this model useful? It helps your awareness of how you treat others and yourself. This allows you to reflect on whether this is how you want to treat people. How do you treat others? Strangers, friends, family… How do you treat yourself? Do you treat yourself differently from others?...

There are things in your life you can influence. There are things in your life you can’t influence. You can see this as a spectrum going from totally in your influence, to not in your influence at all. Concern There are things in your life that concern you. There are things in your life you aren’t concerned about. This is also a spectrum from very much concerned about to totally not concerned about....

You can see every relationship as having an emotional bankaccount. Every time you feel positive towards someone is a deposit. Eg. you feel understood by that person, you feel grateful towards that person, … Every time you feel negative towards that person is a withdrawal. Eg. you feel misunderstood be that person, you feel anger towards that person, … At any given time you can check the balance of the bankaccount....